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Has he always had a mental illness or learning disability? It doesn't sounds like he ever met the norm that way?My son got a text from his dad that he is giving up his appartment ( in Banff) and moving to the Philippines, but possibly going to LA before in December. He is sending five boxes to the Philippines. He has been talking about doing this for two years. We don’t have much information. There is some Philippina who he might have met when on vacation two years ago to whm he has sent money before for a “;food truck business”- but this somehow didn’t work out. ThePhillipina suddenly changed her last name to his last name on her facebook page a few months ago.
My ex is going to be 61. The year before vacationing in the Phillipines, he was in Italy and came back and said he was going to move to Italy. It always were just ideas. Now he is actually giving up his appartment.
My son said he had talked about “ becoming a paparazzi” to make money- that’s where the LA destination might come from.
My ex always needed people to help him, when we immigrated to Canada, I was the one who did all the paperwork, or it wouldn’t have happened.
I am worried he might now have a more serious condition with regards to mental health, or he is just being taken advantage of by someone who thinks he might be a sugar daddy. He can’t plan, so he doesn’t have a lot of money, so the sugar daddy thing will not work out.
I am not sure what to tell my son. I said he should call him and ask him all those open questions, like what he is going to live on, an address, health insurance, visa status, how he will keep contact with him.
I wonder, what my son could do if it sounds he is really having serious delusions ( which he never had before, he only had stupid ideas). But the paparazzi idea sounds so far off, that I wonder if there is something more going on.....